I really loved SARK and when I moved to San Francisco I wanted to meet her. I was kind of a devoted fan… not in a crazy way, but I adored her honesty, writing, and life. So, I went to a book reading and after it was over I gave her a letter telling her how much she meant to me. Now I realize that she, like most celebrities, do not want these tokens of our affection and I feel a little foolish. I still like her writing, but I am kind of over her as an idol.